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For John

Posted on August 11, 2011November 24, 2018 by Brian Prager

To my friend, John.
On his daughter Kana’s birthday, apart when they shouldn’t be.

“Some are Born to sweet delight,
Some are Born to Endless Night.”

Solidarity.

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